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Drako's Art Contest - April 2016

This month's Nomination Theme:
Mummification
    
This month's Voting Theme:
Macro

Nomination and Voting Deadline:
May 1, 2016

Head on over to drako.funurl.com to Nominate Art and to Vote now!
  • Listening to: Starlight
Drako's Art Contest - March 2016

The latest winner is:

This month's Nomination Theme: 
Macro

This month's Voting Theme: 
NA

Nomination and Voting Deadline:  
April 1, 2016

Head on over to drako.funurl.com to Nominate Art.

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Changes to Drako's Website Services....

We have noticed that our domain server for Drako's Website Services has revoked our domain for no reason and without any warning.
They are trying to sell the domain now for well over $1500, and thus we will be forced to change the domain to Drako's Website Services.

For the time being, you may access DWS using the URL below:

We are working on setting up DWS' new domain:

We will keep you posted as changes become available.

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On another note...

Many of you may be asking why I have made some changes to my life and preferences.

Like why am I poly??

Well, due to many past mistakes and things I have been learning from them, I have made the decision to NEVER go into another fully closed relationship again.

From what I have learned, being Mono requires that both parties instill a level of control over each other.  If either party is unwilling to be a part of that for any reason, the relationship will tend to burn out.
The sad truth of this situation is that if one person decides later on to go poly, after instilling fear in their mate, then things go sour really fast.
I myself feared losing one of my exes, and him telling me that any play with anyone else would mean the end of our relationship was no help.
Then he turns around and wants to add someone into the relationship, and makes it look like I am not good enough by begging to play with this new person all the time.
It made me feel inadequate and made me feel like I was losing someone I still love.
I was upset by the ordeal, and ended up trying to force control upon him.. Trying to keep what I had.
But I went about it all the wrong way.
He was wonderful to me, and even though he seemed to refuse to play with me so he could play with the new boy - I'd argue a bit about how I felt and he'd tell me he loved me for one thing and him for another.
But I was still very much uncomfortable with it all.  I felt like he was no longer into me, and that I was losing him forever.
I created my own fears with how I handled the situation...I turned into an asshole trying to control someone else...trying to keep him to myself.
It was very much unlike me, and upon realizing how poorly I behaved, I feel sick that I stooped to that level.

I should have let it be, because if I did that, he would still have come home to me in the end of it all.
But because I was so dishonorable and disrespectful, I created my own fears to come true, and lost it all.

I realized that with all that, it is not a good idea to ever let myself get into a position of that kind of control ever again.
And with how I am, I tend to burn out any single partner rather quickly.

So, since mono relationships require a level of control over ones parter and their control over you, it can turn ugly if one wants to open up a bit while the other is unsure or even uncomfortable with the idea of it.
Especially if they were solid with just each other for a long period of time.

So, I REFUSE to ever go into a mono relationship ever again.
I don't ever want to garner that mentality of control ever again.

So that is why I am poly and why I have my pack.
I love my pack: my wuff, my pup, my master and fellow pets.

I had a lot to learn, and I realize now that one can love more than one other.  And that the love could be for different reasons.
I understand now what I did not back then.
  • Listening to: Starlight
Drako's Art Contest - February 2016

The latest winner is:
Syles Doppelganger - www.weasyl.com/submission/1059…
by Syles - www.weasyl.com/~syles

This month's Nomination Theme:
Macro

This month's Voting Theme:
Bondage

Nomination and Voting Deadline:  
March 1, 2016

Head on over to drako.funurl.com to Nominate Art and to Vote now!
  • Listening to: Starlight
Drako's Art Contest - January 2016

The latest winner is:
4 angry dragons - www.furaffinity.net/view/14121…
by Grawlee - www.furaffinity.net/user/iakho…

This month's Nomination Theme:
Bondage

This month's Voting Theme:
Straitjackets

Nomination and Voting Deadline:
February 1, 2016

Head on over to drako.funurl.com to Nominate Art and to Vote now.
  • Listening to: Starlight
Drako's Art Contest - December 2015

This month's Nomination Theme:
Straitjackets
    
This month's Voting Theme:
Babyfurs

Nomination and Voting Deadline:  
January 1, 2016

Head on over to drako.funurl.com to Nominate Art and to Vote now.
  • Listening to: Starlight
Drako's Art Contest - April 2016

This month's Nomination Theme:
Mummification
    
This month's Voting Theme:
Macro

Nomination and Voting Deadline:
May 1, 2016

Head on over to drako.funurl.com to Nominate Art and to Vote now!
  • Listening to: Starlight

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Favourite genre of music: ROCK BABY!!
Favourite style of art: Furry
Operating System: I prefer Linux or PowerBat OS
Favourite cartoon character: Mewtwo
Personal Quote: I am your worst nightmare...

Drako has been living with his mate, Mix Tags, since September 14, 2007.
(We are currently taking a bit of a break and trying to rebuild our relationship at this time)
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:icondr-35:
DR-35 Featured By Owner Apr 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Hey. Thanks for the fav bro
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CyrusTarber Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
Hey you! Long time no see~
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jmac32here Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2012
Has been a while.. happen to have a Jabber, GMail, or Google Account?
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:iconcyrustarber:
CyrusTarber Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
I have gmail and Google Talk, look up "cyrusthemewtwo"
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jmac32here Featured By Owner Sep 5, 2012
is that @ gmail?
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NoodleArt Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2011
Really? Awesome! thanks for the heads up :)
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ziude Featured By Owner Sep 26, 2011
Hola!!! Thanks a lot for watching and faving. I really appreciate it!!! ^0^!!!
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jivanika Featured By Owner Aug 15, 2011
thanks for the fave
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Wuhzzles Featured By Owner Jul 19, 2011
thanks so much for the watch! ♥
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Clawstarz Featured By Owner Jul 17, 2011
and the watch XD
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